Salam alayk.
post kali inspired by blog kawan aku. thank you orang yg berkenaan.
consider this :
ada lah seorang kawan kau, kita namakan dia X. kau tak rapat sangat dengan dia. tapi dia ni dalam kalangan kawan2 kau jugak lah. jauh2 sikit. dan kau tahu dia ni seorang smoker tegar, walaupun dia smoke secara sembunyi. hari2 dia hisap rokok satu kotak sehari. dia tak tahu kau tahu dia smoker tegar. lepas tu, pada suatu hari...
X : weh ________________ (isi dengan nama kau). ko tahu tak? smoking ni bahaya bai. boleh dpt lung cancer. dah la tu, ulama kata haram pulak. so kalau ko hisap rokok, berdosa ah.
---STOP RIGHT THERE----
bagaimana reaksi korang?
Monday, June 20
Friday, June 10
transformation 101
Salam alayk.
In need of self-transformation? But no idea how?
Here are a few steps that can be your guidelines:
1. Understand your reason.
Why do you want to change? To impress someone? Tired of living like you are living right now? You decide. But the ultimate reason for changing is of course because of Allah. Because with that, you get reward not only here, but in the hereafter just as well, insyaAllah. And one thing about changing for the sake of Allah is that your reason is always there, so the chances of you having second thoughts are reduced to almost nil. When you want to change because you like someone and trying to impress him or her, he or she might go away, or taken or die. When that happens, your reason to change is gone. So you won’t change anymore. Which is bad, if you are actually planning a change for the better.
On the authority of Omar bin Al-Khattab, who said : I heard the messenger of Allah salla Allah u alihi wa sallam say:
"Actions are but by intention and every man shall have but that which he intended. Thus he whose migration was for Allah and His messenger, his migration was for Allah and His messenger, and he whose migration was to achieve some worldly benefit or to take some woman in marriage, his migration was for that for which he migrated."
2. Aim.
How would you want yourself to be like? What part of you do you want to change? Aims would drive you to where you want to be. It is also aim that determines what you have to do in order to carry out the change. That is why aim is something crucial, without which, you would be lost. Maybe you were someone with bad mouth odour, and you want to change that. So you will have to practice oral hygiene even more religiously, like brush your teeth after every meal. Or something like that. Another instance is that you are someone with ‘bad-tongue’ in that you like to talk bad about others. Realising this is a mistake, you want to change it. Because of Allah. You know He does not like it. So you will have to keep your tongue busy with good things like zikir.
3. Effort.
Here comes the most important and hardest step. Now that you know your reason, and you have set your goal, it is time to work it out. No use planning without actually putting it into actions, yes? This is entirely up to you.
For each one are successive [angels] before and behind him who protect him by the decree of Allah . Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves. And when Allah intends for a people ill, there is no repelling it. And there is not for them besides Him any patron. [ar-ra’d : 11]
Taking the previous instance, ‘bad-tongue’, your effort will be keeping your tongue busy with good deeds like zikr. That way you will not have much free time to talk about other people. And always remind yourself about the change that you want to make. That will prevent you from doing what you always do. Resist the temptation of carrying out this bad habit. Pray that Allah will make it easy for you and that He will help you through it. Remember that He is always there.
And your Lord says, "Call upon Me; I will respond to you." Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell [rendered] contemptible. [ghafir:60]
The thing about changing for the better is that it is never easy. No one says it is. It is always hard to even begin, let alone keeping it within you for the rest of your life. But know this: the first step is always the hardest, the first cut is always the deepest. As you go along, you will actually doing it without even realising it. It is indeed your habit. Say, do you remember when you first perform you solat? Did it occur to you that you were once forced to do it, and at the beginning you did it reluctantly? Look at yourself now. I bet you perform your solat without having people to remind you anymore. So when you have reached your goal, remember to look back to where you were and see yourself now, not to be proud of yourself, but to be grateful that Allah has actually help you through it. And now that you are a new you, it is time to help others that might still trapped with the’ you’ that you once were.
And those who strive for Us - We will surely guide them to Our ways. And indeed, Allah is with the doers of good. [Al-ankabut : 69]
In need of self-transformation? But no idea how?
Here are a few steps that can be your guidelines:
1. Understand your reason.
Why do you want to change? To impress someone? Tired of living like you are living right now? You decide. But the ultimate reason for changing is of course because of Allah. Because with that, you get reward not only here, but in the hereafter just as well, insyaAllah. And one thing about changing for the sake of Allah is that your reason is always there, so the chances of you having second thoughts are reduced to almost nil. When you want to change because you like someone and trying to impress him or her, he or she might go away, or taken or die. When that happens, your reason to change is gone. So you won’t change anymore. Which is bad, if you are actually planning a change for the better.
On the authority of Omar bin Al-Khattab, who said : I heard the messenger of Allah salla Allah u alihi wa sallam say:
"Actions are but by intention and every man shall have but that which he intended. Thus he whose migration was for Allah and His messenger, his migration was for Allah and His messenger, and he whose migration was to achieve some worldly benefit or to take some woman in marriage, his migration was for that for which he migrated."
2. Aim.
How would you want yourself to be like? What part of you do you want to change? Aims would drive you to where you want to be. It is also aim that determines what you have to do in order to carry out the change. That is why aim is something crucial, without which, you would be lost. Maybe you were someone with bad mouth odour, and you want to change that. So you will have to practice oral hygiene even more religiously, like brush your teeth after every meal. Or something like that. Another instance is that you are someone with ‘bad-tongue’ in that you like to talk bad about others. Realising this is a mistake, you want to change it. Because of Allah. You know He does not like it. So you will have to keep your tongue busy with good things like zikir.
3. Effort.
Here comes the most important and hardest step. Now that you know your reason, and you have set your goal, it is time to work it out. No use planning without actually putting it into actions, yes? This is entirely up to you.
For each one are successive [angels] before and behind him who protect him by the decree of Allah . Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves. And when Allah intends for a people ill, there is no repelling it. And there is not for them besides Him any patron. [ar-ra’d : 11]
Taking the previous instance, ‘bad-tongue’, your effort will be keeping your tongue busy with good deeds like zikr. That way you will not have much free time to talk about other people. And always remind yourself about the change that you want to make. That will prevent you from doing what you always do. Resist the temptation of carrying out this bad habit. Pray that Allah will make it easy for you and that He will help you through it. Remember that He is always there.
And your Lord says, "Call upon Me; I will respond to you." Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell [rendered] contemptible. [ghafir:60]
The thing about changing for the better is that it is never easy. No one says it is. It is always hard to even begin, let alone keeping it within you for the rest of your life. But know this: the first step is always the hardest, the first cut is always the deepest. As you go along, you will actually doing it without even realising it. It is indeed your habit. Say, do you remember when you first perform you solat? Did it occur to you that you were once forced to do it, and at the beginning you did it reluctantly? Look at yourself now. I bet you perform your solat without having people to remind you anymore. So when you have reached your goal, remember to look back to where you were and see yourself now, not to be proud of yourself, but to be grateful that Allah has actually help you through it. And now that you are a new you, it is time to help others that might still trapped with the’ you’ that you once were.
And those who strive for Us - We will surely guide them to Our ways. And indeed, Allah is with the doers of good. [Al-ankabut : 69]
Tuesday, May 31
Building and Destroying
Salam alayk.
Consider these :
A - Lego skyscraper.
building time : >10 minutes. with full effort, that when you finished, you got tired. literally. and satisfied.
destroying time: < 1 minute. one hit only. done.
B - Real skyscraper. the one involved in 9/11. i forgot the name.
building time: who cares, but im sure it took a few years. with full effort.
destroying time : a few hours. < one day for sure. one or two plane crashes. done.
C- Relationship
building time : depends
destroying time : less than building time
D - Rapport
building time : depends
destroying time : less than building time
now question. why is it something built so hard and took so long, can be destroyed so easily?
Consider these :
A - Lego skyscraper.
building time : >10 minutes. with full effort, that when you finished, you got tired. literally. and satisfied.
destroying time: < 1 minute. one hit only. done.
B - Real skyscraper. the one involved in 9/11. i forgot the name.
building time: who cares, but im sure it took a few years. with full effort.
destroying time : a few hours. < one day for sure. one or two plane crashes. done.
C- Relationship
building time : depends
destroying time : less than building time
D - Rapport
building time : depends
destroying time : less than building time
now question. why is it something built so hard and took so long, can be destroyed so easily?
Saturday, May 28
Friday, May 20
Post exam stress
Salam alayk.
we all know stress. we heard it almost everyday throughout the year. especially when exam is near. staying up late at night, a lot to cover, cannot remember bla3 you name it.
but have you ever heard of the phrase above? post exam stress? i bet you don't. or d-
POST exam stress is the tension you feel right after the exam.yes. it's quite the same as the one that you feel prior to your exam, except that the stressors are different now. for example, you do not know what to do. which leads to boredom. and that is stressful.
oh well, just to say, i'm feeling that as we speak.
bosan.
we all know stress. we heard it almost everyday throughout the year. especially when exam is near. staying up late at night, a lot to cover, cannot remember bla3 you name it.
but have you ever heard of the phrase above? post exam stress? i bet you don't. or d-
POST exam stress is the tension you feel right after the exam.yes. it's quite the same as the one that you feel prior to your exam, except that the stressors are different now. for example, you do not know what to do. which leads to boredom. and that is stressful.
oh well, just to say, i'm feeling that as we speak.
bosan.
Friday, April 29
Dah lama tak tulis blog
Salam alayk.
*baca balik tajuk diatas sebagai ayat pembuka tirai post aku kali ini*
dua minggu lagi exam eos. eos itu merupakan singkatan yang digunakan di imu. iaitu end of semester. imu itu juga merupakan singkatan bagi nama universiti. international medical university. eos kat imu ni ada 3 kali. eos2, setelah habis sem 2, eos 3 selepas sem 3 dan eos 5 selepas sem 5. eos merupakan exam professional di imu. kat mana ntah professional nya. aku pun tak tahu. dari itu, eos 2 secara automatik nya menjadi exam professional yang pertama bagi aku. ia akan cover sem 1 dan sem 2 punya silibus. bunyi macam ok je kan. tapi sumpah banyak nak mati. dengan microb nya lagi, parasite2 semua. dah la nama pelik2. nak hafal. Strongyloides stercoralis lah, Ascaris lumbricoides lah. cacing kerawit je padahal pun. pastu ubat2 pun nak jugak nama pelik2. neostigmine lah, benztropine lah. tak boleh ke bagi nama senang nak ingat? ubat migraine. bagilah nama, ubat migraine 1, ubat migraine 2. heee. gere aku.
anyway. aku tengah stress sebenarnya nih. haha. masih ada dua minggu. dah tahu benda banyak, study ah kan. dok tulis blog buat apa. oh well, what to do. ko kena rasa dulu cane jadi aku baru ko tahu cane aku rasa.
*baca balik tajuk diatas sebagai ayat pembuka tirai post aku kali ini*
dua minggu lagi exam eos. eos itu merupakan singkatan yang digunakan di imu. iaitu end of semester. imu itu juga merupakan singkatan bagi nama universiti. international medical university. eos kat imu ni ada 3 kali. eos2, setelah habis sem 2, eos 3 selepas sem 3 dan eos 5 selepas sem 5. eos merupakan exam professional di imu. kat mana ntah professional nya. aku pun tak tahu. dari itu, eos 2 secara automatik nya menjadi exam professional yang pertama bagi aku. ia akan cover sem 1 dan sem 2 punya silibus. bunyi macam ok je kan. tapi sumpah banyak nak mati. dengan microb nya lagi, parasite2 semua. dah la nama pelik2. nak hafal. Strongyloides stercoralis lah, Ascaris lumbricoides lah. cacing kerawit je padahal pun. pastu ubat2 pun nak jugak nama pelik2. neostigmine lah, benztropine lah. tak boleh ke bagi nama senang nak ingat? ubat migraine. bagilah nama, ubat migraine 1, ubat migraine 2. heee. gere aku.
anyway. aku tengah stress sebenarnya nih. haha. masih ada dua minggu. dah tahu benda banyak, study ah kan. dok tulis blog buat apa. oh well, what to do. ko kena rasa dulu cane jadi aku baru ko tahu cane aku rasa.
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