Point of view

Salam alayk. 

setelah 20 tahun aku hidup di dunia yang fana ini, banyak yang telah aku pelajari dan aku lalui. lihat. dengar. tengok. apa lagi... antara banyak2 benda yang aku dah tengok, lalui, pelajari, alami,ada satu perkara yang dulu aku terlepas pandang. alhamdulillah sekarang Allah bagi kat aku ilham dan buka hijab yang mengaburi pandangan aku tersebut. 

QUARREL -Have a disagreement over something (wordweb)

ya. quarrel ni kalau di terjemahkan ke bahasa melayu, ia membawa maksud bertengkar (google translate =D )
sinonim: bertekak, bergaduh, berbalah, berselisih pendapat. ok. sedar tak sedar, perkara ini merupakan rutin harian kita sebagai manusia. hari2 kita ...quarrel dengan orang2 yang berdekatan. mungkin over masalah matematik, ataupun ketika hendak mencari jawapan kepada satu soalan chemistry. mungkin juga kerana hendak merancang satu trip ke mana2. kita akan quarrel jugak. tapi dengan baik. maka dipanggil berbincang. fine. aku tak kesah yang tu. yang irritating nya ramai manusia yang suka quarrel pasal satu perkara yang kecil kemudian dibesar2kan. sejurus selepas itu, udara menjadi sangat 'dingin'. masing2 tak mahu mengalah. maka masing2 mula menarik muka. hujung bibir sekan akan kalah kepada tarikan graviti, dahi mula berkerut seolah-olah kerak bumi bergeser yang menunjukkan akan berlakunya gempa bumi dengan 9 kala richter. tak lama kemudian kata2 kesat mula melayang2 di udara. kata yang kesat apabila bergerak di udara yang dingin, friction yang dialami akan menyebabkan keluarnya percikan api, menghangatkan keadaan. maka tangan dan kaki akan menggantikan tugas lidah. ok. cukup description.

Of friends and annoyance

Salam alayk

i have been receiving a number of questions on formspring which center on annoying friends lately. conflicts. misunderstanding. irritating. pain in the ass. stressful.(i'm pretty sure you get my point already now, dont you?) what should i do, what will you do, what to do and all those advice seeking questions which are posted in a somewhat raging manner. yes, i know. that happens. indeed. friends can sometimes be annoying. it happens. they do stuff to you. yeah. really. 

question is, actually, why? 

here's a list of plausible reasons. 

1. different points of view. you might want to read my previous post on this stuff. 
2. emotionally unstable. or you call it emo for short. some people, when they enter 'emo' mode, they are very highly extremely remarkably incredibly sensitive to the surrounding. a slight bit of anything can annoy them.  thus they annoy people too. just to,u know, make things even. i think. and people dont normally go emo for no reason. problems are usually the trigger.
3. a way of showing 'affection'. especially those of opposite genders. i know a few guys that transform into a jerk around some girls that they like. and i see the response. girls got annoyed. and they - the guys - are somewhat happy! 
4. a way of saying 'i dont like you'. yeah, same action, different meaning. but you can spot the difference. if someone doesnt like you, and he annoys you, you can see the disgust or hatred on his face. this, mind you, occurs for a reason too. maybe you are the one annoying them. and they dont like it. so they annoy you back. *duh~*
5. genetic. this might sound rude in a way, because when you say genetic it means it is inherited from the parents. but....anyway, what i'm trying to say here is that some people are nurtured with that,uh, u know, behaviour. they are not actually born that way, but rather they are grown up with it. 

Berkorban di hari raya korban

Salam aidhil adha 

there are two hari raya in islamic calendar. one being aidilfitri and the other is aidhiladha. as much as kids love hari raya aidilfitri, i, on the other hand prefer the latter. not that i dont like aidilfitri, i mean, who wouldn't, right? but, it's just that aidiladha seems to be more 'appealing' to me, if you know what i mean(if you dont then nevermind). of course, when i was a small boy, i was also in the crowd that became vigorously excited about aidilfitri. because kids just wanna have fun (ini bukan lagu...sape ntah) and fun it is on aidilfitri. you get duit raya, baju raya baru, main mercun etc etc. but as you grow up, you don't get those anymore. even if you do, you don't really feel anything special about it. that is the case for me at least. and as for aidiladha, it is more towards the adults. the adults sembelih lembu or kambing or kerbau or unta. the adults masak many kinds of masakan out of daging and parts of lembu or kambing or kerbau or unta. the adults help in the gotong royong sembelih lembu or kambing or kerbau or unta. the adults do this and the adults do that. 

and one unusual view that you get to see during aidiladha is lembu kena sembelih. yeah, maybe you eat meat everyday, or burger for that matter. but do you see how the slaughter is done?